Right now Venus, the planet of love, is conjunct Pluto, the planet of transformation. This means that there is an opportunity for transformation in love relationships. But it might not be easy.
Pluto is an ass-kicker. I read somewhere recently (sorry, can’t remember where) that Pluto only offers two choices: Change or be changed. Change will happen, it’s only a matter of how gracefully we accept it.
So if your romantic relationships are being a bit challenging right now, see if you can find how transformation can happen. Rather than doing the same old patterns, try something different. Reflect upon how the situation is bring you a chance to transform yourself in some way. Perhaps even find some gratitude for it.